26 Sure Signs A Guy Is Confused About His Feelings For You

Are you dealing with a guy who doesn't know how he feels about you?

It's not a fun experience.

It's that sinking feeling you get when you feel like he doesn't like you or doesn't like you enough to take things to the next level.

But don't be too sad right now, because with some clarity, you can at least move forward with confidence and stop wasting your time being confused about her confusion.< /p>

Let's get started.

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Why would a guy be confused about his feelings for you?

There are acceptable and unacceptable reasons why a man would be confused about his feelings for you.

Let's eliminate the non-acceptable reasons first. A guy would be confused about his feelings for you because:

He's not really confused about his feelings for you. Instead, he uses the word confused to hide his true intentions, which are to keep you (not lose you) while searching for his one and only. He's not in love with you, but finds you attractive enough to sleep with. He's a hot and cold guy who manipulates your feelings. The relationship lacks emotional connection and emotional attraction (one or both).

Now let's get into the most acceptable (least painful) reasons why a man would be confused about his feelings for you:

He has an avoidant attachment style and errs on the side of emotional detachment. This emotional detachment makes him resistant to falling in love and being vulnerable to you in a relationship. This resistance is what he describes as "confusion", perhaps because he is not self-aware enough to notice his own emotional unavailability and emotional blockages. He doesn't want to lose control in a relationship and therefore resists and fights his feelings. There are people working behind the scenes to brainwash him into thinking you're a bad catch. He had poor role models for healthy relationships growing up and therefore ran away from true love, believing it to be "wrong" or wrong in some way. He might have an insecure attachment, causing you to give him mixed signals or act in ways that push him away and sabotage the relationship.

None of these reasons, however understandable, do you any good as a woman.

It's a difficult situation to be in and I really don't want you to give in to its confusion unless you have good reason to do so in your particular case.

The best way to avoid believing it is to educate yourself on what its confusion really means, without the BS and without the lies.

The next step is to...