Of course, it goes without saying that speaking your wife’s love language is always important, but on a day that showers her with love, it’s essential. The Five Love Languages, based on the bestselling book by Dr. Gary Chapman, shares insight into how we can give and exchange love that is meaningful to our spouse.
This Mother’s Day, listen to how your wife naturally communicates her love and meet her with compassion and purposeful intention, all with the goal of filling her love reservoir. Below are some ways to speak your love language.
Words of Affirmation:
-Write a heartfelt poem.
-Create a list of positive adjectives that best describe her.
-Share your heart openly about how much she means to you and your family.
-Give her a devotional or affirmations book to help her share the love God has for her and how much you cherish her too.
Acts of Service:
-Clean the house. Let the kids help you!
-Take care of the day’s tasks.
-Create their favorite meal.
-Create a coupon book with ways to “serve” her in the future, such as washing her car, making her coffee, bringing her breakfast in bed, planning a date (including child care), etc.
Quality time:
– Give him your full attention by being an active listener.
-Watch their favorite movie (with popcorn or their favorite snack).
-Go outside. Go for a hike or a long walk.
-Pay attention to distractions such as your phone or perhaps a work-related issue, and just be present. This is truly the best gift for some “quality time” between girls.
Gifts :
-Homemade and thoughtful gifts are what will touch his heart.
-Flowers, chocolates or jewelry are always nice, but to really touch her heart, think about what she really likes and appreciates. Gifts must be “meaningful”.
– Stock up on her favorite snacks and bring them to her in a gift basket.
-Take her on a surprise shopping trip, go thrift shopping, or visit her favorite store and get a gift that fills her heart.
Physical touch:
– Snuggle up together on the couch.
-Rub her feet, play with her hair, or give her a back massage.
-Treat her to a day at the spa.
-Be intentional in holding her hand and pulling her close, as she views this as a romantic gesture and feels adored.
Related:
What are the 5 love languages?
Learn to Speak Your Spouse’s Love Language
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