17 early signs of a controlling man

There are several warning signs of a controlling man which, if you are not aware of them, could leave you vulnerable.

You don't know what you don't know, as they say.

And there are a lot of things you might not know if you haven't learned. Or if you haven't had the experience of being with someone who is controlling.

And while most of the men in the dating group are good, decent men who don't want to reduce the quality of your life, there is a proportion of men who have intentions harmful.

The purpose of this article, then, is to help you eliminate the blind spots around the signs of a controlling man and to recognize the signs early enough so that you don't lose decades of your life to the wrong person.

Well, not just decades - even months is too much for a controlling, toxic man to lose.

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To fall over How do you know if a guy is going to control?

One of the best early detectors for a controlling guy is actually your feelings.

You will feel the effects of a lot of what a controlling man does, but here's the catch:

It's going to be hard to balance the "bad feelings" or the feeling that "something is wrong" in this guy with the good feelings he produces in you.

Many of the first signs of a bossy guy will be felt very early on by you, these feelings can be easy to ignore because the guy gives you so many other ways.

Aggressors have tactics, you see.

They don't just mistreat you all the time. They apparently treat you very well (on the surface) as well as treat you badly.

Remember this:

At the start of a relationship, these tactics may not be – or feel – as harsh. But they will be there if you look and, more importantly, feel.

What are the first man control tactics?

They may go on a rant about their exes cheating on them (this seems harmless to you, since you are not the target of his aggression).

Or they may do something that reveals their naughty side early on, like criticizing your choice of restaurant or your housekeeping skills in an unexpected and vile way.

But then they will shower you with gifts and declarations of undying love.

Or maybe they will completely ignore your best friend when you introduce them, but gently hold you from behind, kissing your neck while telling you how beautiful you are.

Some of the most abusive and controlling people are the best at making you swoon and losing your footing. Because they have something to hide.

So you really need to be vigilant but also immune against their attempts to control you.

Let's help us get this super power now. We'll start with the definition of the control.

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