Don't Text Him and He'll Text You: True or False?

So many well-meaning people tell you, "don't text him, and he will text you!"

This idea revolves around this basic principle:

That if you're scarce, he'll want you more. Just by your absence, he'll start to get curious and hopefully, he'll start to miss you.

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Don't Text Him and He'll Text You Eventually: Is That Real?

I fully understand the idea behind this. But that's nonsense.

Because you know what's rare?

A size 12 left boot with thick leather insole from 1943 on the bottom of the Mediterranean Sea. But why isn't anyone looking for it?

Because no one cares or sees value in it.

You may be thinking, "but you're taking it too literally." or "you overthink it."

Actually, not at all.

Consider this:

If something has no value to you, you won't care about it, you won't feel connected to it, you'll aspire to it or you'll work on it.

If you meet a sex-hungry, low-IQ man who happens to be homeless with breath that smells like the dead rabbit of 1872, and he's decided not to text you so that < em>you were texting her, would you want to text her?

Keyword: want.

I don't mean texting him out of guilt or pity.

I mean, would that make you want to answer him. Would you be inspired and attracted enough by him to text him back?

The answer is pretty obvious. Yes?

So where are we?

We establish an important principle that will serve you in your love life for decades to come:

The value is where the real answer is.

If you are an inherently valuable woman who easily inspires emotional attraction and emotional connection in a man, even over text, then he will see enough value in you to do most things you would want him to do.

Including texting yourself first.

Conclusion:

Listening to advice that screams "don't text her!" will not bring you the most desired results.

But what are the most desired outcomes?

If you're like the majority of feminine women on earth, it's a man who falls in love with you so that the textual relationship feels effortless reciprocal between you.

For more, see my article: How to Interest a Guy Over Text? (Don't Make These 3 Common Mistakes!)

If he doesn't text, does that mean he's not interested in you?

…Or that you are of low value?

Not necessarily. A guy might be in love with you and not want to text you out of fear, nervousness, or just because he's manipulative.

It's rare, but it can happen.

The point is not that you're of little value if he doesn't text you back, but rather if you believe the advice that says "don't text him" because you think it's which will make him text you, you are buying a lie.

Why?

Because even if you've tried this on a guy before and found it "works", it doesn't be...