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Whenever Suzanne thought of her sister, all the anger and resentment she had felt over the years resurfaced.

She had been hurt many times and could barely tolerate being in the same room with her.

Suzanne knew it wasn't healthy for her to hold on to the pain and anger she felt, but she didn't know how to stop.

Did she want a fresh start with her sister?

Did she even want to feel love for her again?

Here's what we know...

Being stuck in hurt feelings and regurgitating every negative interaction that went wrong in the past keeps the pain going.

When you see that the hurt feelings come from your perception that this person shouldn't have said or acted in a certain way…

You can stop focusing on this perception and ask this question…

"How do I want to present myself in this situation and with this person?"

When Suzanne asked herself this question, she had a glimpse beyond the place of "reward" that she had operated with her sister.

She had retained the idea that her sister deserved the coldness that accompanied their interactions.

But when Suzanne considered the weight of resentment and anger overwhelming her…

She decided she could choose to show up with more love for herself and her sister.

When she saw that every moment was a new beginning, she didn't feel like bringing up all the past hurts she had stored up for years.

Did that mean she had to listen if her sister launched into one of her judgmental speeches?

Of course not.

Suzanne saw that if she didn't buy into what her sister was saying, there was no "hook" or anything to fight against.

She saw that she could choose love.

She found she could lovingly steer the conversation to the present moment and healthier topics when she wasn't caught up in the drama and her sister's way of seeing the world.< /p>

She realized that she could show herself above all with love for herself as well as with love for her sister.

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