Getting Your Partner to Change: What to Do and What Not to Do

A of THE manners has get your partner has change East Also A of THE the hardest things has see…

Especially When It is A relationship Or You are Really invested And to want something better that You are experiment RIGHT NOW with that person.

THE best path has get someone other has change East NOT THE even old manners that We typically try:

Handling And “guilt” Intimidation Anger Tears Silence And THE cold shoulder Say again suggestions Or requests Trying has get them has see he OUR path with logic And how fake they are Or all of THE above

If You guilt journey, manipulate Or any of them other method of trying has get your partner has change, You are most likely going has run In resistance And A brick wall.

Resistance East THE enemy of change And people resist any of them time they don't do it think It is their idea Or that he makes sense has them.

They can feel control And become cut off even more deeply In "be It's true."

THE truth East that has to have sustainable change, A person has has see something new For himself Or herself.

Changing, shift Or socket on A new behavior Or A new path of TO DO things Never arrived until And unless he seems as A GOOD idea has THE person.

Change arrived almost automatically When THE old behavior No longer makes sense but THE new behavior done.

This East Why if You to want your partner has change, THE only thing You can Never TO DO East to show up as love And be A invitation has something bigger Or better that they can not be able has see For themselves.

And he has has be their choice.

Any of them other manners of trying has get them has change other that allowing them THE space has see something new just creates resistance.

Do that mean You to have has close up And put up with "bad" behavior?

Of course not you to have A choice as well.

You to have has decide how important your desired changes For THE other person are has You And to kiss THE possibility that maybe You can be open has changing as well.

-He could be that You see something new In that You don't do it to have has socket on SO firmly has how You think things "should" be.

-He could be that You see that he doesn't to have has be Exactly THE path You to want he has be For You has be happy.

-He could Also be that THE change You to want has see In your partner East A agreement breaker For You if he doesn't arrive.

->Important questions has ask if You are considering if has stay Or go