Ouran High School host club creator has some rules for writing Haruhi

Since Haruhi doesn't try to act boyish, much of her behavior is still distinctly feminine. "She still hasn't really lived up to the societal norms of being more masculine. So, for example, she's never rough," Hatori explained. In fact, her sweet nature is precisely what attracts customers to her. Hatori would also draw Haruhi in "subtle cute poses" to maintain her feminine nature even in her boyish uniform.

Besides being cute and sweet, Hatori also wanted Haruhi to be a nurturing character. "She always intended to do something for someone," he recalls. This intention guided Haruhi's behavior, especially in conflicts. "Something Haruhi would never do would be discriminating against someone," Hatori revealed.

When Tamaki finds out that Haruhi is a girl, she insists that "it's more important for a person to be recognized for who they are rather than their gender." Toeing the line of gender ambiguity, Haruhi proves that the most important part of being a woman is being yourself, whether that person is more feminine or masculine. Performed aspects of the genre, such as haircuts and outfits, come second. Even in an all-male role - pretending to be a boy - Haruhi maintains her femininity. It's a strong message for young girls that has kept "Ouran High School Host Club" relevant for decades.