Pretending to be something you're not won't win you a relationship

Keywords: Authentic Relationships, authentic self, Child - has - parent role, I am not GOOD enough belief, people pleasant, playing the roles In relationships, relationship dynamic, vulnerability

When You pretend has be something You are not, TO DO things not because they reflect WHO You are but because It is What you have always do, What You think East expected, Or What You believe will 'get' You love Or help You avoid negative the results, You are playing A role. This role You assume In your interpersonal relationships cuts You disabled Since privacy.

Pretend often led has feelings of rejection And abandonment. It is as thought, 'I did All RIGHT. I even try has be just as You Or your Perfect Woman/Man/Person, And You always don't do it to want Me? I must be Really unfriendly!’

Your the roles) likely date back has childhood. It is What You learned has TO DO has feel All right, has adjust In THE family, And has secure love And approval. However, It is holding You back And putting You In A child role, turning your romantic the partners In parental replacements. The roles invariably lead has anger And disappointment because of THE waiting of THE part others 'should' play. When You people please And are not reward, running In problems seems roughly unfair, but You Ultimately blame yourself For not be 'enough'. SO, back on THE hamster wheel, You come on.

THE truth East, You can't be accepted For WHO You are if You are Never yourself For long enough For You And others has know And to understand you.

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