Such dangerous relational temptations (but we do them anyway)…

Temptations come In all sizes And shapes (No, were not just talk about cheating here)…

And that if acted on, would be feel SO GOOD (has less In THE moment) but would be be SO damaging For yourself, your relationships Or your marriage.

THE do East that We all to have manners of acting that can ruin OUR relationships And THE issue East that even However We can NOT to want has autumn In those habits, were tent has TO DO he anyway.

THE mad thing East that We TO DO he on And on Again And SO wonder Why OUR relationship Or marriage East In THE shape he East in….

Here are A little of those relationship temptations... 1.Play THE "I got you" game

THE "I got you" game East When THE two of You to try has prove each other fake And yourselves RIGHT. It is A struggle For control.

This game results In both of You withdraw Since each other–either After escalation, angry words Or superior, sarcastic, Cut Remarks. You END up to punish each other In stony silence that can last For hours, days Or weeks.

It is Really tempting has keep playing THE "I got you" game because he just feels SO GOOD has be RIGHT And has TO DO someone other fake In THE moment, even if It is someone You love.

But It is A of THE most destructive "Games" You can unconsciously Or even consciously play has get your needs met.

2. Get caught In THE negative history

We all love drama And THE negative history can be a lot more exciting has live In instead that A positive a pair if he kill OUR relationships.

It is not has say that What arrived has You should be minimized Or ignored And buried.

He did arrive.

But When You relive THE negative history on And on, You stay In that history And not In THE possibility of THE here moment.

When You stay In your history, You lose THE privacy And connection that can arrive When You are open has something new event In THE moment And not blocked In THE past.

3. Socket each other For granted

He can be very tempting has take your partner For granted In part, because OUR culture said It is normal In A long term relationship has TO DO therefore.

He can be very tempting has excuse usual, discourteous behavior by justify he as A women said has We After We heard her Speaking roughly on THE telephone –

"I can to treat him as that... He is My husband. »

When You don't do it say "thank You" Or just assume without manufacturing A request, You miss A beautiful opportunity For privacy And connection.

He can be very tempting has not to treat another with respect if You don't do it feel that You are get any of them return.

But all that do East TO DO THE situation worse between THE two of You And masks THE real issue It is be buried.

All right, SO Why are We all tent has act In certain manners even However You know your Actions are not GOOD For your relationship?

We TO DO he out of habit.

We TO DO he because We to have amnesia about THE results.

We TO DO he because This behavior feels familiar And because he feels comfortable In A weird sort of way.

We TO DO he because TO DO something other can seem scary And uncertain even However OUR normal behavior product THE even negative result Again And once again.

Of course there are a lot other manners relationship temptations to show themselves flirt Or interact inappropriately with someone WHO East not your partner.

Never mind these temptations are In your life, It is useful has stay back And get aware of what is this In fact event And why.

SO What can You TO DO has not autumn In these relationship temptations that can cause SO a lot ravaged In your life?

First of all…

Identify THE behaviours that You are tent has TO DO that You know TO DO not take You In THE direction You to want has come on.

He could be specific situations that throw You In temptation.

He could be specific Actions of other people that trigger you.

He could be stories You are replay In your head that keep You stuck.

Never mind they are, become aware of What takes You down that path.