The blame trap only ends up helping shady people

Keywords: Offensive Relationships, responsibility & responsibility, blame, in competition with people, feeling replaced, feeling unworthy, I am not GOOD enough belief, to provoke abuse, self-blame, shady behavior, shady people, shady relationships, shame, societal beliefs, societal conditioning, Why was not I enough?

When were In unhealthy And unsatisfactory relationships, We often blame others, And SO ourselves, For THE other the person behavior.

For example, We claim that OUR romantic partner ex(es) 'obviously' doesn't love them RIGHT Or give THE RIGHT support Or sex them enough Or never mind, Thus Why they moved on has Or are mistreat us.

When We SO struggle In THE relationship Or This person moves on, We blame OUR lack of sufficiency. We wonder What THE new person has that We don't do it. After All I did For them, they replaced me! GOOD Also say ourselves A painful fairy tale that This person has spontaneously burned In A better person In A better relationship. OUR mentality speak has that part of We that blame yourself And shame When people are WHO they are.

Live abuse, abuse, lack of accomplishment East not about OUR dignity Or deserves!

THE distraction of blame East only beneficial has those WHO seek has exploit OUR fear of having borders. We blame others, SO We blame ourselves, And shady people continue avoid to confront themselves. Were SO busy overcompensation And prove ourselves that We don't do it recognize THE problems In their behavior And THE relationship.

As A Company, as people, We must stop peddling THE lie that people wouldn't he TO DO THE things they TO DO if other people deficiencies doesn't to provoke them. Particularly For women, We to have has stop narrative ourselves that if A women partner looks somewhere else Or Acts like wrong, that he must be because She was not enough, if In physical appearance, sexually, Or effort.

We to have has stop blame ourselves, but We Also to have has stop blameeveryone other. When We stop, We take responsibility For ourselves through healthier bordersandus get has navigate has mutually fulfilling relationships.

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