The Self-Sabotage Dating Quiz

Do you feel like you're on a tap is rolling dating or relationships where you attract guys who hurt you? Where are you disappointed again and again in the same way? Here's my self-sabotage dating quiz to help you break through in your love life.

A self-sabotage dating pattern will sneak up on you, often when you least expect it. Even if you swore you learned your lesson and you'll never be cheated, dumped, or heartbroken by the same type of guy again. In fact, you find yourself in the same heartbreaking situation again. This repetitive behavior stems from covert self-sabotage that ruins any chance of lasting passionate love.

The Self-Sabotage Dating Quiz: The Top Five Types

What's behind self-sabotage? Your unconscious. And he tends to be more attracted to the types of partners and relationship scenarios you're used to. This is a natural process that usually stems from your childhood experiences and early relationships. Your unconscious gravitates towards what is most familiar and feels good. These are the guys you'll tend to feel the most attraction to right from the start. The problem is…

What is most familiar to you may not be ideal for you or even compatible with you in the long run. What looks good is not necessarily.

So I call these unconscious behaviors self-sabotage encounter patterns. In my book, Love in 90 Days, I identified 13 major patterns that lead to heartache over and over again. For now, we'll focus on the top five. Once you understand your own behavior, you won't have to repeat it.

The Self-Sabotage Dating Patterns Quiz: Determine Your Pattern(s)

Group A. Answer the following questions. Do you:

Acting perfectionist and fussy when it comes to men? Do you often have one-night stands? Fantasize & fall for men who are unavailable and out of reach? Sometimes you're attracted to a nerdy guy when another woman is flirting with him. Do you find yourself drawn into fast-moving relationships?

Group B. Answer the following questions.

As for men:

You tend to be more conservative about your sexual activities and choosing a partner. Do you run away from relationships almost before they start? You believe there is one great love in your life, a soulmate prince, and you stand firm for him no matter the cost. You might be embarrassed to introduce your boyfriend to your friends or family. Do you feel like men leave the minute you give in to chasing them? The Self-Sabotage Dating Quiz: Determine Your Dead End Dating Pattern(s)

Group C. Answer the following questions

Thinking about your chances of having a "happily ever after:"

You think you deserve the fairy tale and you're picky, picky, picky. Forget that! You like sex and pleasure without commitment. You take crumbs, though they seem like sumptuous meals, from a semi-available guy. You are pessimistic and do your best with anyone who shows up and stays with you. You rush in, believing that the magical feeling of love will conquer everything.

Group D. Answer the following questions.

Your biggest grief:

Did things go wrong with a guy who seemed absolutely perfect - you found out he had a fatal flaw. What heartache? You've been too busy having fun, especially in bed. Is ongoing - you have a relationship with an amazing guy who can't commit. You don't really have any big sorrows. It's for women who only think with their hearts. You feel like he cheated on you...