Where are the answers to your relationship problems?

Here's a quick story about something that happened this week that has nothing to do with relationships but has EVERYTHING to do with solving relationship problems and such.

Our new book, BIG FAT LOVE: The Book of Possibilities is coming out in 9 days and I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong.

We had just created a great bonus audio called "Making Love Last: Creating Your Vision for Lasting Love" that anyone who orders the book can get but...

There was a BIG problem!

For two days this week I struggled to upload this audio to our servers so anyone who wanted it could get it and…

No matter what I did or how many times I tried to download and save the audio somewhere everyone could hear it…

All I got was a persistent error message and nothing changed!

To say I was frustrated was an understatement!

That's what many, many people think about their relationship issues that never seem to change.

I've certainly had my share of relationship challenges, and I'm sure you have too.

Whether it's a problem with a relationship that's important to you or in another part of your life...

When you think about it to the point of nausea and do the same things over and over to "fix" the problem, the answer rarely shows itself!

So when I saw that I wasn't close to having an answer as to why the audio wasn't downloading properly…

I asked a friend who is a web professional for help.

Even though she didn't know about this particular program, she was willing to help.

But I told him that I would try to solve my problem one more time before planning some time together to work on it.

Well, the next try was also a failure, so I left it alone for a while.

The next day, instead of doing what I've done in the past to fix my problem...

I calmed down, let go of my emotional frustration and sense of failure, and to my surprise, a new idea came from somewhere deep within me.

Was it "magic" or was it something else?

So what does all of this have to do with you and your "problems"?

Everything.

When we cling so tightly to what we think is the answer, to what we have been able to do so many times before to solve a problem…

We get the same result over and over.

When we allow room for new ideas, we get new answers.

And that starts with quieting our emotions and staying out of our "stories" that we've made up about this situation.

You might get the "nudge" to contact someone or find information to help you and that may lead you to the next step.

The solution can bubble up inside you when you are not obsessed with the solution and when your mind is busy with other things.

The solution may not be something that has occurred to you in the past.

This might even be a better answer than you ever imagined.

It takes trust in the wisdom that always flows through you, me, and all of us all the time.

You have to love yourself and believe in yourself.

You also have to be open to new possibilities.

Okay, so that bonus audio issue has been resolved and we're almost ready to announce details on how you can get our book, BIG FAT LOVE.

So now I have the problem of a leaky washing machine (which is only a few months old) to solve.

Anyone know a good plumber?

Much love to you,

Susie

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