20 Sweet and Sexy Date Ideas to Turn Up the Temperature on Date Night

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In any relationship, keeping the romance alive is essential. It's not always so easy, as the hectic things in life get in the way. Luckily, there are so many romantic date ideas you can plan together that can help you stay close and connected, and have a great time.

We have a long list of date ideas for couples, but we wanted to bring you a list that is exclusively romantic and also sexy. And it doesn't require a passport or a to-do list. That's what this list of romantic and sexy couple activities is all about.

These 20 sexy date ideas for two are perfect for kicking up romance and putting your relationship first. Want to make your next romantic night steamy and memorable? Let's go.

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Have a romantic stay

Explore the most romantic places and things to do in your city. After exploring a bit, check into a romantic local hotel for a weekend get-together, the more luxurious the better. (PS: We have articles on romantic things to do in dozens of cities around the world. Search the site to see if yours is here!)

Enjoy a day at the spa

Celebrate the fun with this sexy date idea. A couples massage is a must! Being totally happy side by side is a wonderful way to bond. Make a day of it. After going to the spa, plan to go home and relax in bed. Chances are both of you are in the mood for slow and sweet sex.

Try some role-playing.

A fun and sexy idea for things to do with your husband is to try role-playing! It's a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. Or you can even extend it outside the home, for example by meeting as "strangers" at a nearby bar.

If you're feeling a little shy, don't be afraid to take it easy! Take your time and try simple ways to role-play. You don't have to be a "character" for this to work. You can just try to be a little more "commanding" or submissive, whatever feels good to you and your partner.

PS: Check out these sexy bedroom games for more fun ideas!

To go for a tour.

There's something truly romantic about a leisurely drive. Destination unimportant. To add a sexy touch, find a super private place to park your vehicle. Make love in the car like a couple of teenagers.

Stand and talk for hours

Who said talking wasn't sexy? Especially when discussing your deepest secrets and your most intense forbidden fantasies. Need inspiration? These conversation starters will give you hours of material to discuss.

Host a wine tasting and dance party in your kitchen.

These wines won't taste! Grab a bunch of varietals, put on a romantic playlist, and have a great night at home. To spice things up a bit, give this evening a dress code: underwear only.

Play a sexy board game.

Turn game night into a sexy delight. There are many different games that are designed exclusively for couples and have a lot of...