21 Warning Signs He's Losing Interest In You And What To Do About It

Are you a little afraid that the man you love will escape you?

Well, let me tell you, it is natural to lose some level of interest in a long-term, committed relationship.

It may not be how you currently feel, but if you look at the definition of "interest", it starts to make sense.

The Cambridge dictionary defines "interest" as:

"A feeling that accompanies or draws special attention to something or someone."

And the verb…

"To attract the attention or arouse the interest of."

At some point, you or a man will lose interest for a short time. And even if your man hasn't lost interest, you'll feel like he's lost interest just because you're a woman and thrive on his attention.

Your femininity grows when he gives you his presence and attention.

But if he has something going on like a big project at work that needs his full attention (and is on his mind), you may start to feel like he's losing interest when it's not. the case.

He's just in a different male "mode"

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To fall over Things to know Men and women both lose some level of interest at some point in a relationship (that doesn't mean we can't regain that interest when our love interest is in a different emotional state or environment) The real problem comes when the loss of interest becomes a more permanent thing, leading to a man falling completely in love with you. Interest is the lowest level of value for you as a woman, and him being in love and related to you is the ultimate level of value. "Interest" is the lowest level of value you can get from men

I already mentioned that there is a difference between a man who is interested in you and a man who is serious about you:

MORE: Is he SERIOUS about you or just "interested"? Critical Distinction.

That doesn't mean you don't want male interest of course, as interest can often be the absolute start for it to fall in love.

But at the end of the day, you want more than just his interest.

You want him to see you as his "one and only" - because he's fallen in love and wants to be tied to you for life.

Anyway, a guy losing interest can mean losing a relationship for you, and that can be painful.

The way to fix this is to make sure you're in its "one and only" cart, rather than the alternative - which is the "one of many" cart.

You see, when a man is dating a woman, he very quickly puts her in one of two categories. These categories are:

The one and only"; or The "one among many"

When you're in the "one of many" basket, he could be your boyfriend for ten years and never give you his full commitment.

It's only when you're a man's one and only that his interest (but more importantly, his love) will last a lifetime.