7 Undercover Reasons Guys Walk Away After Intimacy

If you're wondering why men distance themselves after intimacy, the first thing to know is that there are positive reasons and why men do this.

As a woman, of course, you hope the reason your guy is distant is for positive reasons.

Although it's not nice to see a guy cold after having sex with him, some guys need to do this to regain their balance.

They want to feel like a man again (it's their masculine instinct and it doesn't mean they like you any less), while others do it for reasons related to insecurity.

Plus, there are more selfish reasons why men distance themselves after intimacy, and you definitely need to be aware of these reasons to protect yourself from future pain.

Let's now divulge all the reasons for you, because more than likely you won't have the words to explain what he's going through.

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Why do men change after sex?

To answer this question, I need to divide the answers into two contexts:

The context of casual and uncommitted sex The context of a man having sex with a woman he is in love with.

We'll start with context number 1.

Men change after sex because they have different motivations than you do for engaging in no-strings-attached sex.

They can also change after sex because of the difference in value between what you got out of the situation and what he as a man > removed from the situation.

Basically, even though you both "had" sex, he benefited more than you did, at least from an evolutionary and reproductive perspective.

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For example, consider this:

Men report feeling regret more often after casual sex, unlike men.

Instead, they are much more likely than women to report having regrets after not taking the opportunity to have casual sex!

And due to the fact that non-committal sex has a higher cost to you as a woman emotionally, physically, and biologically, it makes you crave something from him after sex.

While he doesn't need anything from you.

That's right, nothing.

Unless he is emotionally connected and emotionally attracted to you.

He might predict that you will need him now…

Either because he knows women well, or because he's had a lot of casual sex (and seen what women are like afterwards).

Alternatively, it senses and senses the emotional and behavioral changes in you.

In simple terms:

He got more than you biologically because:

He's not likely to get pregnant for 9 months and raise a child - but you are; and Non-committal sex with a variety of different partners fulfills her reproductive goals far more than it will ever fulfill yours as a woman. He wasn't attached in the first place, and sex never makes a man attached to a woman, because for men, love and sex don't overlap. They actually occupy different pathways in the brain.