Differences and Expectations (and How They Ruin Relationships)

A of THE the biggest challenges In relationships East always THE do that were different Since each other–with different beliefs, experiences And manners of TO DO things.

Because of these differences, We can together up expectations of THE other people In OUR lives that TO DO connection, love And understanding pretty impossible.

We either way think that other people should be as We (even However logically We know It is not true).

We think they should act as We, think as We And TO DO THE things We to want them has TO DO but he doesn't work out This path because THE simple do East this…

We are all different And those differences And expectations get In THE path of love And connection.

And When We forget This And forget has appreciate THE simple do that others think differently Since we…

We create unreal expectations of others that wall We disabled Since THE love We want.

A of THE manners has manufacturing Of course differences And expectations don't do it ruin OUR relationships East has simply to understand that other people ARE different Since we…

And they don't do it to have has be as We In order For We has love them, appreciate them And see how they add value has OUR lives.

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THE issue In This relationship is not it that her friend doesn't love, care about him Or appreciate him.

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THE issue East that Otto has expectations And even desires that This friend be different that he is.

THE problems to start In those moments When Otto forget how wonderful her friend Really East And THE manners This friend contributes has her life.

THE moment that Otto departures manufacturing her friend fake In her own spirit For be different Since him And wanting that their connection be different Since What he is…

It is When THE judgments to start In of Otto spirit And THE disappointments crawl In And build walls between THE two of them.

Please to understand that of Otto friend knows Nothing about these thoughts that Otto has about how he wishes he were different.

of Otto friend doesn't know how a lot Otto wanna THE relationship has be different that he East RIGHT NOW And more as how he was a lot years there is.

Should Otto talk with her friend about that?

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THE reality East that of Otto friend East giving as a lot has THE relationship as he maybe can given her other commitments And time constraints.

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Otto forget has appreciate THE relationship he do to have with her friend And how a lot he values THE time that they TO DO get has spend together.

And This East What We all TO DO SO a lot of THE time…

We hope, wish And to want things has be different (maybe THE path they used has be) And very often they are not THE path We conceived marry as them has be…

And SO We create problems In OUR spirit that In fact don't do it exist.

We miss what is this here In This current moment.

THE do that THE other person East different doesn't mean that he Or She East fake, bad Or should even change because of these differences.

NOW of course You don't do it to have has put up with behavior Since others that East not in good health For You has be around.

But trying has permanently change someone And to wait for them has be different Since WHO they to want has be East just A losing battle.

And You lose if It is A You are fighting.

When You to start enjoying instead of judge And be In THE moment, You can see something new that You did not have seen before.

You can see more love And connection that You thought was possible.

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