How to Talk to a Man So He Doesn't Walk Away and Become Cold

Wondering how to communicate with a man without pushing him away? I understand it's hard. Men can be extremely defensive. Or at least it seems so to us.

And it is especially difficult to communicate with a man after the honeymoon period is over.

For example: Have you ever had a relationship with a man, and 1, 2, 3 or more months later you couldn't help but ask him where the relationship is going?

Perhaps you had sex with him, and he kept approaching and then pushing you away.

Well, if you've tried to express your feelings and be honest with a man only to feel like he just disappeared, it's not your fault.

And no, it is NOT necessary to have a desire to know where the relationship is going.

In this article, I will show you how to communicate with a man without chasing him, while respecting your own feelings.

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But first, your feelings: why it's okay to want security

Let's take a general look at why you want to communicate with a man as a woman.

In most cases, it doesn't matter what the surface problem is with a man - what you're looking for when communicating with a man is safety. Comfort. To know that he will not abandon you.

That's what you naturally want as a woman. Just like men try to push for sex, and they naturally want sex, you want to know where a relationship is going!

You want commitment and to be "possessed" emotionally, physically, and spiritually by a good, masculine, high-value man.

And again, you want security.

Did I mention you want security?

And there is a good reason. If you as a woman weren't seeking security in some way, how would you and your children be protected and safe?

Our female ancestors needed to seek security for us to be successful until today. They certainly sought it, and that biological NEED for a woman to seek security is still there within you.

So there's nothing wrong with that!

Strictly speaking, as a woman, you can survive without a man.

But since pregnancy, childbirth, and child-rearing are risky and demanding on a mother, women throughout history have simply thrived in the company of a committed man.

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So let's take a moment to realize that at the heart of most communications is the desire for security.

Of course, there are other things you want to communicate about, like where to have lunch today, which neighborhood would be best to move to, or how he spends too much time with his friends.

But when you're unsure of a man's commitment in the first place, it takes the most of your focus.

But how do you actually communicate with a man? How to express your feelings to a man? And how to communicate with a man without pushing him away?

The first principle you need to know is this: Communication between men and women is naturally tensed by the fact that we communicate very differently.

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Men and women don't "communicate" very well

So: here's the first big problem with getting sec...