My baggage/Your baggage – What to do when it gets in the way of love

This East writing by Susie…

A weekend A couple of years There is, Otto And I were irritated And sudden with each other which East pretty unusual For us.

We certainly were not has OUR the best!

We can blame he on all kinds of outwards circumstances but When I Really look closely, here is What I see…

Both of We allowed "luggage" marry has been without knowing wearing around In THE form of old beliefs And perceptions has get In THE path of love.

Look back has a few of OUR weekend interactions, here is What I see NOW In myself…

-I can see THE belief I had that Otto SHOULD to have do something different Since What he did was below comments I do that sets off her defensive attitude.

THE thing East that I was not even aware of THE "should" that hidden behind My comments.

They just jumped up out of My mouth.

THE luggage of old "should" Of course sneak up on You, don't do it they?

They did me!

-Later, as THE two of We talked about A of these interactions And Really listen has A another…

I could see that I had completely assigned My own meaning has THE reason Otto acted In THE path he is that…

And he was not What was conduct her action has everything!

Identifier do up enough A history has explain her Actions which seemed very odd has Me has THE time…

And My history was not TRUE For him.

What A revelation For Me has (Again) see that!

Are We back has THE proximity And connection We generally experience?

Yes, because It is only A thought far…

And There is A road return.

Here is What Otto said about that road back For him…

"When I am has My best, I am willing has confront he (My luggage) And see that he doesn't serve me.

"When I am not has My best, I generally find something other has put In THE bag has TO DO he heavier And bigger. »

How TO DO You to leave go of THE heavy luggage You are wearing around that gets In THE path of love?

1. Be willing has stage back And see THE beliefs And perceptions below your words And Actions that contribute has THE conflict In your life

As Otto said, be willing has confront What You are wearing around that doesn't serve you.

When I TO DO This, I see A plot of "should" that I doesn't know were continued has be buried there that to drive Me In not so healthy ways.

2. Become aware When You unconsciously add has your luggage

This arrived When You form A notice about someone Or something And he becomes solid In your spirit.

We think This guard We on And avoid pain but all he Really do East to weigh We down And keep We In A State of anxiety And fear.

He doesn't protect We Since Nothing but instead guard We Since enjoy THE here moment And magnet THE best We can.

When I think I know what is this best For Otto, It is always A sign For Me has look In And discover What I am wearing around.

But It is your choice…

Do You to want has to carry around And add has A heavy load of beliefs And perceptions that keep others far?

3. When You see your luggage East do up of thought, You can to leave he go

Of course there are very real Actions that people can take that can hurt you…

And You need has act In your best interests with love towards yourself.

I have discovered that a lot of What I have door around, Sometimes For years, has No substance.

A GOOD example of This East thought My father thought I was stupid has times And wearing This thought with Me For a lot years that I was stupid.

He colored My Actions And guard Me small.

A little years There is, I accomplished that I could allow This thought When he came up has float on by And not attach meaning Or energy has that.

When I TO DO that, he has No power on Me And I don't do it to carry he around.

It is all In What We decide has TO DO moment by moment.

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