The trick to making sure you don't push love away...

one of the tricks to make sure you don't push love away unintentionally is…

To make sure you don't cling to thoughts about your partner, yourself, and others that would make you recoil or hesitate to be as loving as possible.

Far too many times in our relationships and lives, we mistakenly believe a random thought about our partner…

Who they are, what they think, something they did (or didn't do) that wasn't true at all!

And once we start believing any thought, we start acting towards that other person as if that thing is true even though it isn't.

We begin to isolate ourselves from that other person and withhold the love that could truly enrich our lives and the lives of others.

If you want to make sure you're not pushing love away unintentionally, one way is to see that other person from a place of truth, kindness, and an open heart.
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A quick example is not jumping to conclusions about why someone is saying or doing something before you ask.

It's so easy to jump to the worst possible scenario without neutrally verifying it.

We all do it, but we don't have to.

When you ask a question in a neutral and kind way to help you understand…
–> Free video gives you magic words to say it right every time –>
The other person will be more open to you and not get defensive.

When you don't think about the thoughts "He never..." or "She always..." but you stick with a curious thought "I don't know", then you DO REALLY DON'T KNOW...

You will not push love away and you will keep the door to love open for yourself, your partner, and others in your life.

When you're not immediately moved to say and do things that undermine the trust between the two of you because you believed your thoughts might or might not be true…

You will be open to hearing what is real and your partner will be more open to sharing their truth with you.

This "trick" for not pushing love away is not difficult. Just be aware and present to yourself and others.
If you have a question about this, contact us here…

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The trick to making sure you don't push love away...

one of the tricks to make sure you don't push love away unintentionally is…

To make sure you don't cling to thoughts about your partner, yourself, and others that would make you recoil or hesitate to be as loving as possible.

Far too many times in our relationships and lives, we mistakenly believe a random thought about our partner…

Who they are, what they think, something they did (or didn't do) that wasn't true at all!

And once we start believing any thought, we start acting towards that other person as if that thing is true even though it isn't.

We begin to isolate ourselves from that other person and withhold the love that could truly enrich our lives and the lives of others.

If you want to make sure you're not pushing love away unintentionally, one way is to see that other person from a place of truth, kindness, and an open heart.

A quick example is not jumping to conclusions about why someone is saying or doing something before you ask.

It's so easy to jump to the worst possible scenario without neutrally verifying it.

We all do it, but we don't have to.

When you ask a question in a neutral and kind way to help you understand…

–> Free video gives you magic words to say it right every time –>

The other person will be more open to you and not get defensive.

When you don't think about the thoughts "He never..." or "She always..." but you stick with a curious thought "I don't know", then you DO REALLY DON'T KNOW...

You will not push love away and you will keep the door to love open for yourself, your partner, and others in your life.

When you're not immediately moved to say and do things that undermine the trust between the two of you because you believed your thoughts might or might not be true…

You will be open to hearing what is real and your partner will be more open to sharing their truth with you.

This "trick" for not pushing love away is not difficult. Just be aware and present to yourself and others.

If you have a question about this, contact us here…