The women that men commit to versus the women that men leave

Why did he engage with her and not with me?

What does she have that I don't?

These are valid, but painful questions to ask yourself. But this pain is not there to deliberately hurt you.

Instead, the pain is there to inspire you to find answers.

Good answers. Best Answers.

So that you don't end up in a relationship with a guy who uses you again.

Let me share something important with you.

There is a huge difference between the types of women men engage with and the types of women men leave. And the difference is not what you think it is.

I knew this woman who was absolutely beautiful. Everywhere she went she turned heads and her beauty was otherworldly.

She had all the ideal feminine characteristics a man could want in a woman.

Besides that, she had a great bubbly personality, so all the guys loved talking to her and interacting with her.

Yet, throughout her life, she kept attracting mediocre, damaging and even toxic men and relationships!

She had a boyfriend in high school who ended up abusing and cheating on her.

She had a boyfriend in college who ignored her and also cheated on her.

She then found a boyfriend who was so passive in their relationship that she couldn't take it anymore and left that relationship when she was 29.

It was literally impossible for her to maintain a decent relationship for more than a few years. Yet she is as physically attractive as any woman can be!

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How can this happen?

How can you be as beautiful as her and end up alone and lonely?

Her exes would break up with her and quickly get involved with someone else.

Just like you, she wondered "why did he engage with her and not with me?"

Well, as women, we're conditioned to try to increase our outer beauty as much as we can, but maybe that's really not the answer!

At the other end of the spectrum, I have known very average-looking women who easily and effortlessly inspire long-term commitment from men.

Of course, they didn't get the excitement of men drooling over them in the streets as often as other women might.

But they actually won the ultimate prize. The most precious thing a woman can receive from a man: that he falls in love with her and becomes emotionally committed to her.

And only her.

These women may have won the least noticed and least glamorous prize, but it was the best prize of all: the prize of a ma...