11 Telltale Signs He Regrets Sleeping With You

How do you know if a guy regrets sleeping with you?

There are 11 specific signs that reveal regret. While studies report that women are more likely to regret casual sex than men, men sometimes regret having sex with a woman.

Usually, if a man regrets having sex with you, research tells us that the main reasons for his regret revolve around feelings of shame, guilt and disgust (moral, pathogenic and physical).

Yes, even men regret sex for these reasons, just a little less than women.

Women and men are motivated to avoid the sometimes high costs of casual sex, such as:

Damage to their reputation The possibility of contracting a disease Harmful behavior by a sexual partner that could hinder their long-term reproductive success; and The possibility that their short-term sexual partner will cause harm to people in their social network

As such, if a man regrets having sex with you, it is because of one or more of the perceived “costs” above.

So: when we disclose the signs that he regrets sleeping with you, what we're looking for is body language and behaviors that betray his disgust, shame, or guilt.

Let's now get into the signs.

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Sign #1: He's rude or dismissive of you

If a guy really regrets sleeping with you, he may be unnecessarily rude to you in person (or over text).

That seems a bit too much for someone who just slept with you, doesn't it?

But if there was alcohol involved or if a man is attached to another woman (or wife), he may think that the only way to deal with his own moral disgust with himself is to treat you so badly that you never come near him again.

This is one of the most telling (and painful) signs that he regrets sleeping with you. But why?

Because when a man feels like the sexual encounter isn't worth the cost it took on his life, he would want to put you down and fire you.

It's sort of a safe strategy to make sure he never makes that mistake again.

That's part of the point of regret, isn't it? This is for us (men and women) to modulate our behavior in the future.

So instead of flirting with you like he might have been before you had sex, he'll now act like you're not worthy of his time.

By the way, there are 7 common signs that a woman is perceived as low value to all men. Do you know what they are and how to avoid them like the plague?

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