Are you in “push-pull relationship drama”?

To have You Never felt your partner pulling far Since You And THE more You pushed, THE more he Or She retreated?

Or maybe you have has been on THE other END of This drama Or your the partners arrogant energy drawn You further far Since him Or her.

If SO, You are certainly not alone!

We see This push pull drama In SO a lot relationships, In OUR pass relationships - and he pops up each NOW And SO even NOW In OUR relationship.

Here is A letter Since Clear about This subject Or She request A question that East A extremely common relationship challenge …

"Dear Susie And Otto,

My husband And I to have A GOOD relationship but Sometimes he ramp SO far In her hole that I can't reach him And he discs Me mad. I END up ask him "what is this fake" many times And push him For a few kind of answer but all that do East TO DO him withdraw Since Me even more!

What can I TO DO has give him THE space he needs but always feel A connection with him?"

Here is OUR answer…

Your question has has be as old as Adam And Day before And just as frustrating if You are THE "pusher" Or THE "extractor."

It is pretty natural has to start push When You sense that love East be taken Since you.

This East A very primitive urge Since your old lizard brain that see All as A threat has your immediate survival.

It is A pretty myopic see of your relationship And situation but It is What a lot of We TO DO Many times even When We know better.

It is Also pretty natural has react Since that even lizard brain When You sense that You are be pushed by either push back Or withdraw And pulling far.

SO THE question is…

How TO DO You say your lizard brain has relax And instead react (Or not react has all) Since THE place inside You It is not caught up In THE history And emotion?

Here are 3 manners We to use When We autumn In This push pull trap has get OUR relationship back on of course You can to use Also…

1. Recognize When you have fallen In THE push pull trap

Nothing can change until You to start to remark When You are In THE pattern.

A women We know has lived In push pull hell For a lot years with her adult girl. In "trying" has be useful And magnet, THE women suggests And makes recommendations has her girl without be request. Her girl drawn far.

When We request her has say We about A recent time This arrived, A question that She used Really pushed her girl far–“Do You Really to want has TO DO that?"

In other words, When This women request that question, her girl heard "You are not TO DO he that's right–you can't think For yourself" And She did What her lizard brain said her has TO DO And that was has to pull far Since her mother.

Manufacturing se aware of THE exact words And Your She used In those situations help This women has see What arrived more clearly.

2. Recognize THE thought that creates This push pull relationship drama

We all TO DO up stories that can Or can not In fact be TRUE. Those thoughts just come And come on.

If You to want has keep your connection, You job East has recognize When your spirit chat East spinning You disabled In manners that can kill connection And not buy In that.

This women East learning has take A deep breath When She departures down that push pull road And not pay any of them attention has THE thought that She has has always guide her the girl life In order For her has be successful.

Claire's thoughts (THE women WHO wrote In) could go something as this…

"Some things fake with We And I to have has fix he RIGHT NOW. »

Never mind your spirit chat East, recognize he, breathe And stop yourself Since TO DO What You Normally do.

You don't do it to have has pay attention has he Or act on that.

3. Talk Since your heart without push move forward

If your partner has took of Since You And "wanna a few space" if speak Or not said...