Love letter: 90% of love shows itself

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By Miya Lee

« I learned from her – and from my regrets in the years since – that 90 percent of love is showing up, that we shouldn't dawdle or rationalize when our friends are in need, even if they're in need. they are. just “cyber friends,” writes Jennifer Graham in this week's Modern Love essay.

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