Should I text him first or should I wait? 5 mistakes to avoid

Should I text him?

This is a common question we receive in our facebook group. There's nothing more frustrating than wondering if you should risk reaching out first.

What if you reach out and get rejected?

What if you don't reach out and regret it later (especially if it's a very shy guy who is very valuable but just not good with women) ?

I know you're looking for rules and guidance on whether you should text her now, but before we begin, something important needs to be said:

There is no long-term value in having rules on when or amount to send text messages. I know this may sound weird, but consider this…

If you need rules for when to text a guy, you'll be wasting your precious energy on the wrong thing.

The reason is that periods ruin your relationship with a man and diminish your authenticity.

The rules get you out of tune with him, with the conversation, and with your gut feelings.

Essentially, the rules are for your own sense of control and security, not for the relationship.

Now:

I'm not saying go ahead and text her right away because the rules are bad.

I say that rules take you away from true harmony with a man and with yourself.

And you can't fall in love with a man (and he with you) unless there's hyper-attunement.

Essentially, your rules about how often you should text a guy won't serve you in love.

In this article, I will go through the following:

When rules can work for you The downside of texting rules and what you should focus on instead 5 Common Mistakes Women Make When Wondering If They Should Text Her First 3 Common Contexts In Which Women Ask "Should I Text Her?" and advice on whether you should text her. Including: If you just traded numbers, you just dated him or were ghosted by him And finally, we will answer some frequently asked questions

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Rules as an answer to "Should I text her first?"

In limited circumstances, the rules might work for you.

But when?

They can come in handy if you are a woman who has no intuitive understanding of what boundaries are, either for yourself or for others.

And when you can't read subtle comments.

In other words, you are so inattentive and insensitive to others that you don't see, feel, or hear a man's "no."

If this is you and you still need a strict answer to the riddle "Should I text her?" so here are the only 2 rules you should stick to:

Don't text him if he doesn't answer Don't text him if he hasn't contacted you in two weeks

Pretty self-explanatory when you think about it, isn't it? By the way, would you like to learn the ONLY thing you can say to...